>
> The lady is going hell bent for 90 and doesn't know how to
> lay out her life story but rattles on and on without making much
> sense.
Rete: thanks loads. im only terrified,was
> tired as tired gets when i wrote it,and have called EVERYONE I CAN
> THINK OF TO GET HELP WITH NO LUCK. i said i sounded stupid. i said i
> rambled. so i know that part already :(
anyway in answer to your
> questions:
1. "Who was in prison that you had to get married in
> prison? If it was you, I am assuming you are out on parole or served
> your sentence. Criminal activity of a USC will not make a difference
> anyways to the USCIS."
we got married there because it was a few days
> before he had to go back..it was an unplanned wedding so what we did
> was we got married by a magistrate. thats all,no one served any time
> for anything,people just get married "in prisons" all the time.
> neither my husband or i have ever stolen so much as a stick of gum so
> we dont have a record or anything of that sort. perhaps i should have
> made that more clear in my first post. dont want people thinking ive
> been doing time (since i havent)
2. "Didn't you go to the USCIS site
> for information and to order your forms? And don't you know there is
> no INS but there is an USCIS."
i got my form (one form..i was only
> told of ONE form..and THIS from someone who is supposed to help people
> with the process,very annoying and one of my problems,i wasnt told of
> half of what i need) and yes,i have seen the website but it doesnt
> cover half of my concerns and if it does then i havent found it yet.
> and yes,i know its not called ins anymore but its been on all the
> papers weve recieved and im just very used to calling it the ins.
> maybe i should get in the swing of trying not to call it that but its
> very much what ive been used to before now.
3. "Didn't you mention
> you have an attorney?"
no but with the way things are going i
> probably ought to have. since we're near charlotte it shouldnt be too
> hard to find someone.
4. "Why do you need a Waiver?"
i dont know
> that we do,but he came over on visa waiver,and i dont have that slip
> of paper. ive been worried they would ask for it and right now its
> missing from our files somehow. we have a folder we keep things in and
> that paper (the visa waiver) was tucked into his passport. its lost
> now and even the little things worry me. i know i am stupid of a lot
> of what i should know but its not because i havent TRIED,we have. we
> just get ran in circles,everyone says something different,and we keep
> getting sent to office after office for god knows what reason. i just
> NEED HELP badly. im more than willing to do whatever i need to help
> him stay but we have been going through this for years with no one
> "official" ever saying the same thing twice. it isnt easy emotionally
> or mentally when you are told to do this by one person and then that
> by another..you just want to do it the RIGHT way the first time..which
> didnt happen with us,we've been put into some sort of immagration
> circus or something,its just crazy all that we've been told so far.
> thats why im looking for the perfect way to go about all this so we
> wont face anymore troubles in the future and i need to get the papers
> we need filed AGAIN the proper way very soon.
5. "Why was your
> application sent from Texas Service Center to Nebraska? Did you move?"
>
thats the thing,your guess is as good as mine. i know we sent it to
> texas because it was where we were told to send it to (strike one for
> whoever told us that one...being in sc,obviously texas isnt our local
> office) so we did as we were told. dunno why we got sent to nebraska
> of all things either,they just did. and lost our pictures between here
> and there so there was a rush to get new ones and find a place that
> knew how to and had proper film,someone who knew how to do them
> correctly,and so on. since theres been the problem because of only
> sending in the I-130 and nothing else (strike two against whoever told
> us THAT one....this is why im trying to find the answers myself
> instead of even asking someone who supposedly knows what they are
> talking about,i dont care where they work if they are giving me wrong
> info then something is WRONG with that) and him coming on visa waiver
> only,i believe our things are being sent somewhere in the NE (i could
> be wrong about that) but at any rate our papers are bounced around
> like you wouldnt believe and we dont know why. we havent moved (though
> we plan to but we will tell the office we will use before we do)
6.
> "Why didn't you file everything for your baby err husband at the local
> district office governing where you live?"
G has his birth
> certificate (not SS # as of yet because he hasnt had any shots so he
> cant be issued one,but will soon) so i was just wondering if they
> needed to know we had a son..silly question maybe but i dont want to
> leave anything out that needs to be there. thats happened to us
> (through no fault of our own,just going by what the office told us) so
> yeah...worth asking i thought.
7. "Can Mommy and Grandma prove
> support for themselves, you, husband, and child at 125% of the poverty
> guidelines."
we're doing ok. and i want to work. i need to find a
> place to work and i will. id go to work scooping rhino poo if it meant
> J could stay here.
8. "Has hubby done anything illegal such as work?"
>
not one thing. in fact he finds it frustrating because he CANT do
> the things hed like to do (ie,he was learning to drive before he came
> over and cant here without a SS #)..and he wishes he could work,but he
> wont do anything that isnt "allowed"..and hes never done drugs or had
> anything to taint his record in england,either.
9. "Do you receive
> any type of welfare or housing assistance?"
nope and nope. ive never
> been on welfare,ever,and neither has anyone in my family. and this
> house is owned by my grandmother and has been since we moved to sc
> when i was very young.
"You might want to group
> www.visajourney.com. They are very good with problem
> filers."
i had a brief look at that last night before going to bed
> and it looks good and i am indeed going to check it out/join..
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