perishable wrote:
> My husband and I decided to get married and I was barely 19 years old.
> I regret marrying so young now but I can't walk away from it like
> everybody else. He needed his green card so we decided to begin making
> a life together. When he moved to the bay area, we started to find out
> we didn't get along anymore... at all. Now a year has passed, we went
> to an INS meeting when we were all good but now it's to the point where
> I had to even move out. This all happened within a year. I thought I
> could wait a while to save some money for an annulment but the INS sent
> us a letter today saying we have a 2nd meeting, which is abnormal. They
> think our marriage is suspicious I am sure, but it wasn't, but now it's
> bad. We hate each other. I want to tell the INS I don't want to come to
> the 2nd meeting because we're not going to be together anymore but I
> also don't want him to be deported or for them to think it was
> fraudulent. I'm only 20 and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I
> thought I was going to be helping my life partner and now it has turned
> to shit.
>
> What should I do???
If you don't him to be in trouble, go to the 2nd meeting and let him
get the card. After all, he didn't enter into the marriage fraudulantly
while so many others have.
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