SoCally wrote:
>>Do YOU as an adult invite your friends over and play cards, charades, or
>>trivial pursuit?
>
>
> ....and the point of that question is?
>
> Why don't you try to understand what I'm saying about your hypocracy
> instead of trying to change the topic.
>
> If I was forced to define either you or Natalie as "slutty" --- you'd
> win by a mile. So maybe next time you feel like assuming the worst
> about a murder victim, you will sit and think about your own actions
> and realize you REALLY have no room to judge anyone. Let alone a young
> women who can't defend herself.
>
My point is, the term "slut" is such a convenient way to blame a woman
for a violent crime against her (and I am really quite confident that is
what happened). If a male cannot control himself, he is to blame for his
behavior.
I didn't know Preesi had a . site, but if it is true, I would not call
her a slut. However, if she was assaulted and killed, would it be fair
to discount the crime because of her site? No, of course not it would
not be fair or acceptable. That's one of my points. My other point is,
the dynamics of the situation Natalee might have been in could have
caused her to act worse than normal (not that it makes any difference,
it is just another thought). So, even if she got wild one night it does
not mean she deserves a label like that.
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