What kind of thoughts could you possibly be looking for? If you "can't do
that to your husband" just tell the guy no. If he doesn't have the same
commitment to his wife, that's not your problem.
Shaun
"cinnamonsmom" wrote in message
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> can someone give me some insight. i am anglo from the u.s. married,
happy, speak enough spanish to get by, but not fluent. met a guy from
nigaragua speaks no english, here working, trying to send money home, also
married. He has started making suggestions that we could hook up, like
neither spouse has to know, and we could just have our own thing on the
side. I could not so that to my husband, but it seems like he doen't have
the same dedication to his wife. thoughts??
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